And now let's get to the practical part of the discussion around the G-spot. I'm sure that you are eager to get right down to it and find that little bugger. Some men see this as a challenge and as something of a duty. It's their duty to give their ladies the best possible orgasms and that includes a direct hit on the G-spot during each sex session. Stimulation of the G-Spot has also been heavily used by books on sex issues as a bonus for happy couples and a true miracle for men who fail to please their ladies.
If you're looking for the G-spot, you should know that this famous spot is the small area behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra. In some women, this little area is highly sensitive and the source of much sexual pleasure as the penis going inside the vagina rubs against the G-spot. In order to stimulate the G-Spot, men should position their penis for a thrust that is opposite to clitoris stimulation. A penis that curves upward has the natural ability to strike the vagina wall in the area around the G-Spot, while men with downward curvatures may want to try the doggy style.
The G-Spot can also be stimulated using the finger or tongue. It would require a 1 to 3-inch penetration of the vagina. No exact distance can be given since it varies from one woman to another. Experts found that changes in tissue structure occurring beyond the age of 30 make the G-Spot easier to reach. This is why some women in their thirties believe they are experiencing their sexual peak. The fingers are your best bet anytime, but there are also specially designed vibrators that can be used for stimulation. However, it is preferable to find the G-spot first with your fingers and then start poking around with the vibrator.
One of the things you want to look out for is your lady's reaction. As you get closer to the spot, she might instinctively pull back to avoid the direct stimulation of that sensitive spot. This could get you off the course and searching in the wrong area. So keep an eye on her movements. You also want to begin the search after your partner has been properly aroused. You could even wait until she had an orgasm and take it from there. The more aroused the woman, the more likely she is to feel the difference in sensation between the G-spot and the rest of the vaginal wall. Apply firm pressure and watch your lady's reactions. She will guide you to the target.
And lastly, don't be depressed if you could not find it on the first try. Just think that you get more than one chance to finger your lady at will. Work on it and you will discover the G-spot sooner or later. On the other hand, if your lady simply lacks the higher sensitivity in that particular area then that's that. Don't despair; there are other ways of dealing with the situation. You can always rely on the clitoris, the only organ dedicated exclusively to sexual pleasure, to get your lady over the edge and put a smile on her face.
![To date, however, empirical investigations of the G-spot have yielded questionable results.[2] Tests that examined the vaginal wall enervation show there is no one area with a greater number of nerve endings. A recent study of 110 biopsy specimens drawn from 21 women concluded with the absence of a vaginal locus with greater nerve density. G-spot proponents are criticized for placing too much credence upon anecdotal evidence from women.](../images/topheader_02.jpg)
